This is what we found at one of the parks. (I wanted to kiss whomever drew such a thing, but there was no one to be found):
hold a refrigerator
get put in the attic
get thrown away
Because this is NOT a BOX!!
Every family’s circumstances, struggles, finances, values... are different. Not one family dynamic is the same as another’s. It is not up to the public, to strangers, to someone from the opposite sex or the opposite political party or the opposite end of the socio-economical spectrum to say whether what we do, the choices we make for our families, works or not.